KUCH KUCH HOTA HAI...??!!!

Hey frnz..All well haan? Long tym I knw..stupid xams u c. :D

So how well could u know ur heart in all this while? 

Thoda boht? Ya boht kuch?
Jitna bhi samajh aya..keep trying to understand dis lovely creature in u :* <3

                So today’s topic is THE RELATIONSHIP OF FRNSHIP AND LOVE….aahaan aahaan…dnt confuse it wid my first blog post..yahan koi third angle nhi hai guys..its just d two of u my pretty love birds.                

Remember kuch kuch hota hai? All SRK fans out dere…u must have not forgotten the epic definition of luv : pyaar kya hai? Pyaar dosti hai! agar voh meri sab se achi dost nahin ban sakti to mein usse pyar nahin kar sakta/sakti.    

Par shayd yaa to hum me se boht log isko bhul k, dosti k bina seedha pyar hi kar lete hain yaa itna zada implement kr lia, ki har dosti me pyaar dhoond lia…;)

Today we’ll be dealing with the implementation of pyar dosti hai !

Do cheezein hamesha yaad rakhna:

1. Jisse dosti na ho use pyaar kabhi mat karna

2. Ek baar dost k sath relation me aane k baad, usse dosti kabhi khatam mat karna

Aur ye sab just hawa me baatein nahi hai..sun lia karo kabhi kisi ki baat :P

Lets come to first truism : “Jisse dosti na ho use pyaar kabhi mat karna”
Frns, If u ll fall in luv wid someone who was never ur frnd…generally dis happens jab instant attraction hota hai and within few days u strt liking everything abt dat person, disregarding whatever u don’t like and dat person also strt showing same signs and then relationship follows. Fir hota kya hai pta hai ? kuchh dino mein u strt knowing that person more. Ab pata chalne lagta hai jab 24*7 touch me rehte ho ki yaar isme to wo boht kuchh hai jo mujhe bilkul chaiye hi nahi tha. U start adjusting..then start compromising..then argue..then patch up…then get frustrated..depressed..argue..and finally break up! U know y dis happens? Bcz u were never frnz!!!! Kabhi pata hi nahi chala ki kya achha lagta hai kya bura..bas relationship me aa gye.

PEHLI NAZAR KA PYAAR? Beta ji…nazre aur nazaaare sab furr ho jaate hain ek baar doosri nazar bhi daal ke dekh lete to :D

World is filld with examples jahan two ppl bcum frnz and think gradually that he/she wud be the last person w/ whom they will fall in luv..and u never knw when cupid strikes…answer to dis is in next truism :  “Ek baar dost k sath relation me aane k baad, usse dosti kabhi khatam mat karna”   

“Ek baar dost k sath relation me aane k baad, usse dosti kabhi khatam mat karna”: Best relationships r those where lovers were first bst of frnds. Sirf kehne ki baat nahi hai ye..100% true hai ye. Reason sab jaante hain but uss sub consciousness se let me extract it out. When u r frnz, u tend to fight alott…argue alott..pange lete ho..maze lete ho ..and as one of my frnds call it “moju” lete ho. U present ur complete true self before ur frnd. Apna sabse achha and sabse worst self show karne me hesitate nahi karte. Frnz know every detail abt ur moods and understand u. AND wt does luv need? UNDERSTANDING..bas. now u ll ask ki aesi frnships dat turn into reships, brk up to unme bhi hote hain? 


Wo sab islie bcz hota kya hai ki relationship me aane k baad dheere dheere dey let a “lover” to dominate a “frnd” and doosre partner ki expectation wahi hoti hai jese purani frnship me thi. Bass clashes hote hi isi baat pe hai ki tum pehle jese nahi rahe/rahi and pat comes reply ki ab hum dost nahi hai, damn we r in a rship!
Arre? To kya ho gya? Rship me frnship barkarar rakhke dekho…it will grow like flowr and bloom like a rose jab bhi kabhi lover haavi hone lage, frnd se usko replace karke dekho. Pehle bhi to fyts hoti ti na? pehle bhi to customize nahi krte te na ek doosre ko? Pehle bhi to ques bank bankar ek dossre k saamne nahi khade hote te na? BE AN ANSWER FOR EACH OTHER..trust me once and ur rship will b ossom blossom..

Keep dis feeling alive In ur heart and make it :
“kuchh kuchh hota hai” ….PEHLE BHI HOTA THA…AAJ BHI HOTA HAI <3 <3

Lastly I wud say for removing all the confusions,”
 Ek baar ankhein bandd karo ...aur fir dekho. Kabhi kabhi insaan bandd aankho se wo haqiqat dekh leta hai, jo wo khuli aankho se kbhi nahi dekh pata” :) 

Till den…keep rocking keep loving,
Dhak dhak dil ki dhadakti daastan
@luv ka tadka
PRACHI