Insecurity ka fear factor!!

Thankyou guys for such an overwhelming response :)                     Srsly ppl..Hats off to those who do extensive bloggings and dat too so beautifully..kasam se yahan to thoughts ko words ki form dene k process me hi half of the thoughts go HAWA HAWAI ..heehe :D :D                 ^_^                        

Ok so I ll stop beating abt the bush now and will come straight to the Topic for the day!!! Today I ll tell u something about the biggest fear dat can make any relationship A horror movie…hoooohahahaha…:O

YES it is something which is inside all of us….it is INSECURITY!!!!!!

Now u must be thinking ki ye madam ab insecurity k baare me aesa kya new batane aayi hain jo hum sab nahi jaante?!!? Ruko guys…let the story unfold..

Aaj k tym me, u check on any relationship…atleast one of the partner is sure shot suffering from this disease, u bet. Aesa na hota to EMOTIONAL ATYACHAAR waalo ki na to TRP badh rhi hoti aur uska host and dost aaj khud ek relationship me hota :D Anyway, getting back to the point…Insecurities, jealousy, possessiveness, sab agnates cognates hain, like bhai behen jese. Ek ko bulao, poora khandaan aa jaega.
Question ye hai ki aaj kal log rship me luv k baadlon k bajay insecurity ki fog se ghire KYU hote hain???

Starting me sachhi bada acha lagta hai ki mera banda kitna possessive ho rha hai mere liye…oh he luvs me so much…meri bandi kitni cute hai, she cant stand any other girl arnd me, wow…my baby wants me to talk to her only…bla bla bla…AWWW SO LOVEY DOVEY!

Bang on! Ye sab moh maya hai…chaar din me dis fog starts suffocating you…either u ll confront ur partner and result will be lights, camera, fights OR u wont confront ur partner with this prob and sooner or later u ll start looking for wayout of ur lovey dovey rship.

TERE MERE BEECH MEIN KYA HAI??? 
This ques shud be asked only with the expectation of Ans nothing more serious than a CHADDAR ......nahi to gadbad hai boss...!!! :D

Girls and boys, Aesa hai ki relationship ko jail banana band kardo! Love is abt bng happy together, not spying on one another.Whtsapp ka last seen chek karke uske witness box me khada kar dena..bande ka apni frnd ko lift dena ya bandi ka apne frnd se lift lene k issue pe mahabharat chher dena…bandi ka apne ex ko na bhul pana aur bande ka apni ex ko bday wish karne pe Trust disputes bana dena…WHATS THE POINT DOING ALL THIS?? CCTV CAMERA HO KYA??

Yaar, jisne jo karna hai wo wo cheez karega hi…chaahe bataake, chaahe chhupake!
I m not saying that u shudnt confront ever! You shud…but on legit things..aese nahi ki tum big boss bann jaao aur uski life k har instance me nazar rakho..aur saara din insecurities me marre raho. REMEMBER…Big boss contestants r showered with money & yet jail is frustrating after a point of time!!


Chillax karo…zada se zada ek din khatam hi hogi na rship? To kya hua…100 crore ki population to sirf india me hai, kaha tha na :D
Aur bina baat pe kuchh bhi khatam nahi hota..par such actions of urs will give ur partner a reason to leave…Stop irritating.

Till the time u r in a rship…enjoy it..enjoy each day like the next moment u wont be together..dont make it a tiresome job, rather A HAPPY LIVING...After all there was something between u guys dat u ignored the world to come together..hai na!!? \m/


                                Pyar karo to aesa karo ki puchhna na pade ki kiske sath ho…               
aur sab kuchh khatm karo to aese karo ki fir farak na pade chaahe jiske bhi sath ho..:)  

Thought 1>LOVE is bful…but sirf tabhi jab PER DAY k hisaab se jiya jaaye <3 :*
Thought 2>Feel SECURE-IN the rship…not IN-SECURE abt the rship. (*^_^*)

Do Think about it..
Love is over rated..insecurity makes it down graded.. ^_^
Dhak dhak dil ki Dhadkti daastan
@Love ka Tadka
Prachi