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Hi frnzz…ki haal chaal..sab changga? ;) 

Noticed some problem here? Yes? No?
Problem is that I asked u, and even if u replied, I cudnt get ur answer!! WHY? Bcz there lies a communication gap!!!!

In the present scenario, boht insignificant sa sound kar ra hoga na ye sab? But communication ki significance is to such a great extent that almost every sphere of life is covered in its scope. I ll tell u how…as today’s topic is COMMUNICATION IN A RELATIONSHIP – Kitna mushkil, kitna zaruri :D

Grahambell aaya aur telephone invent kr dia..we developed it into mobiles, wireless, walkie talkies, tabs, video confrencing and  wt not…! But dikkat pata hai aaj k tym me kya hai? Ki humare paas means of coomunications to had se zada hain and not to forget that each one of us is an owner of atleast two of such devices…but communication skills nahi hain. 

Communication ka matlb sirf baate exchange karna nahi hota hai guys, unless and until u r able to communicate thru words, actions, expressions or vocally, ur emotions, thoughts, wants, needs and feelings.

Forget abt any odr relation in this world for sometym bcz proffessional relations do not break easily and ties wid parents r also to some extent “lack of communication proof” as they began understanding ur needs frm the time u dint know how to even speak. FOCUS for now on ur relationship wid d person u luv alottt…..!!! (Ppl in time pass relationships can overlook dis blogpost :P )

 Jiske sath hamesha rehna chahte ho..the person to whom u lost ur heart..uske sath communicate karne me problem kyu?? Aesa expect kyu kiya jata hai ki bin bole hi doosra banda/bandi aapki baat samjh lega and will act accordingly? Darling, aesa nahi hota hai! Clear ur mind frm such myths and hypothesis. Remember the first tym u sd I LOVE YOU? Tab bhi bolna pada tha na? ya mann me hi propose kar dia and odr person sd YES widout requiring u to communicate a single wrld of proposal? NAHI…aesa nahi hua tha…qki bolna to padta hi hai.

The same way, once u r in a relation, don’t think ki odr person now knows everything abt u and apne aap hi samjh jana chaiye usko ki wt do I want and expect. NA BOLE TUM NA MENE KUCHH KAHA?? Bass beta ho lia fir to kaam. Tumhare kahe bina doosre ne kuchh karke dena nahi, tumne hona hai disappoint and ho jaani hai ladai on dis point!! Communicate karo..batao expressly ki kya chahte ho…fir dekho ki wish poori ki jaati hai ki nahi..atleast poori hone k 50% chances to banenge na? aur poori nahi hoti hai to reasons complimentary milenge hi doosri side se…:D

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AB - Mere paas feelings hain , emotions hai, thoughts hai, soch hai, aur to aur Samsung note hai, iphone hai, skype hai, whatsapp hai, emoticons hain ………..Tumhare paas kya hai??        
                                                                                                                                                                   
XY - Mere paas…..communication skills hain!!!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               **dhiskyaaooooon** bhaisaab XY ….ye hui na baat!
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On a srs note..if u do not communicate..and leave things for tym to come..disappointments and discontentment wud increase day by day
as sab kuchh ikkattha hota chala jaega widout any mode of venting it out…
and one day like a volcano, everything wud come out and the heat of lava will change ur relationship to ashes.

DO u want it?? Nahi na…so Guys & gals..communicate karo..khul ke bolo..wese bhi to har waqt bolte rehte ho…jab apne kaam ki baat hai to situation doubt mein kyu rakhni :D :D

KUCHH TUM KAHO..KUCHH HUM KAHEIN… <3 <3

Think think think…..& don’t get up after reading dis post till u decide to speak…\m/ ^_^

Cyaa ppl…
hav fun..
make life easy…
keep rocking

@Luv ka Tadka
Prachi