PYAAR KA BANTADHAAR

Hi guys..How have u been? It’s been really long yaar!!!  

U know what, I was searching for something real substantial to talk about but I guess most of the issues and fundas in relationships that take place, unse toh main already deal kar chuki. Ab itne time se i was thinking ki aesa kya bacha hai jo kabhi na kabhi hum sab apni relationships mein face karte hain and I have not been able to have a chit chat with u guys about it.

And guess what...? I found it! :D

Aaj na I have nothing to preach. Kuch samjhaane ko nahi hai. Bass ek realisation wala blogpost hai.

Arre itna serious bhi mat ho logon ;) Bass keep on reading and sath sath give it a thought.

Almost every other person on this earth is or has been in a relationship. Kabhi time pass wali, kabhi serious wala commitment, kabhi one sided luv, kabhi bakwas si relationship, and so on and so forth. Kuch na kuch experience sabko raha hai. Hai na?

Kabhi socha hai that what is that one thing which differentiates one relationship from another?? Relationship k naam pe serious commitment toh hazaaro log karte hain but wo aesi kya cheez hai which binds two ppl together for umpteen number of years while other one ends in few years or so.

Aaj ka topic yahi hai yaar! THE GAME OF LOVE-WHICH LEVEL ARE U ON? ;)

“Ki samjhaiya sajna aina nain kamalya noo..kehnde tenu dekhe vina guzara nahi Honda...” I bet Punjabi puttaron ne toh ye song zaroor suna hoga...and to those who haven’t understood the meaning, it means, “kya samjhau apni inn aankho ko...kehti hain ki tujhe dekhe bina guzara nahi hota..”  

Awwww how sweet..no? :)

Ye sab kehne sunne mein bada achha lagta hai, but when u have to actually deal with some grim situation in ur luv life, then actual reality check comes in! There are so many ppl around us who have been in relationships for a continuous period of 3 yrs, 5 yrs, 7 yrs, and even 10 yrs. By god! Now these two luv birds who have been together for so long, it’s very obvious that life must have hurled many difficult situations at them and they came out succeeding. Tabhi to itni anniversaries sath celebrate kar paaye! :D

But have u ever given a thought as to why there are other ppl who commit with a view of having a serious relationship & despite everything going well, break off? No no no no...jealousy, possessiveness, insecurity, ye sab bhi nahi hota inki relationship me, fir bhi it ends! Omg! Why???

I ll tell u why!?

Hum logon ne na luv ko pata nahi kya samjh ke rakha hua hai. Din me 50 baar i luv u bolna is not luv. Love is something big. Ek big wala important sa emotion hota hai luv. Luv ek aesi cheez hai which does not let u leave ur partner at any cost, whatever may happen to them. Luv is something where u always think good of ur partner. Chahe life mein kuchh bhi ho jaee na, aap uss bande ya bandi ka bura soch hi nahi sakte. Bass yahi baat hai jo long term relationships ko short term wali se alag kar deti hai!

Seriously!!! Har baar u don’t need an external factor for ending your relationship with someone. Kai baar rather most of the times, it is lack of love which brings an end to a luv affair. Hum sab jab commit hote hai na, toh with time, one by one kai levels paar karte hain...video game ki tarah. Aur jo video games me extra lifes milti hai na, wo hume chances ki tarah milte hain real life mein. Wahan toh hum intelligently play karke high, higher and highest levels pe pahuch jaate hain, par relationship k levels, aese cross nahi hote...yahan emotions role play karte hain.

As and when u grow in a relationship, u come to know about certain hidden problems that ur partner is suffering from ya kisi vajah se koi dikkat ho jaati hai usko, as in kuch bhi jese certain health problem, ya peculiar allergy, or some or the other irritation tendencies/physical defect/skin sensitivity etc. It could be anything. Jab ye pata chale toh kya reaction hoga aapka? Will u forget all the goods that a person has and will focus on just one problem that he/she has with his/her internal body system?

Jo bhi reaction hoga...point wo nahi hai...
point ye hai ki kya aap accept karoge?

If yess...then toh I m sure u’ll cross saare levels in this luv ka game..
nahi toh OUT! Fir kisi aur ki baari aayegi, there will be someone else who’ll accept the person with all his/her flaws, temporary ya permanent, but sabke sath, AS SUCH WITH NO ALTERATIONS!! :P
aur tum mr./miss. Bewafa, level 1 se firse game start karna kisi aur Bandar k sath :-\

So aaj ka luv ka tadka ye kehta hai ki:                 Pyaar karo to by god dil se karo...aese karo ki rationality kabhi emotions pe haavi na ho...
There is no use losing a diamond necklace over an imitation jewellery :D :D
warna....Mr. mehbub qayamat to aap par bhi hogi ... aur fir kabhi na ishq ki tujhpe inaayat hogi...                            

<3 <3 Keep loving...                                          
Dhak dhak dil ki dhadakti daastan ;)
@ Love ka Tadka                                 
Prachi