Hey ppl. Hows u all? Vacation time for all of u haan. Mast hai! ;) ;) :)
While I was thinking
abt a new topic for discussing with u all..I chanced upon a mindset of some
committed ppl which I found a bit alarming! Yaa...alarming.
Aap me se kitne saare
log relationship me honge presently and boht log aese bhi honge who have had a
breakup or a current partner along with an ex.
One thing must have been common to u all...at one point of time each one of u must have said this line,"I am all urs baby....U are the most important to me".
Right?
Which means the addon experience that this line comes with asterisk over it which removes the
ABSOLUTENESS of "being all urs"!
I m here to talk abt
that asterisk today. ;)
Problem
with this line is that some ppl take it too srsly...dil pe le lete hain iss
line ko aur jab apna partner available nhi ho pata
24*7*everyMinute*everySecond,
tab ye
line yaad dila dila k taunt maara jata h ki.....
- tum to keh rahe te tumhare liye me
sabse important hu/ tum sirf mere ho...aur ab wo xyz kaam ya game ya tv series
mujse zada imp ho gya tumhare liye?
- Wo eena meena deeka k sath shopping jaana
zada zaruri ho gya mujse on9 chat karne se?
-Wo tom dick harry k sath night out
zada zaruri ho gya mujse skype karne se?
and so on and so forth...
Hahahah..m
damn sure...majority of u must have gone thru this (some of u might be going
through this at this very moment too. Ye faltu blog padna zada zaruri hai, mere
msgs to pade jate nhi tumse...LOL :P)
Khair...point
ye hai ki inn sab innocuous si chhoti si cheezo pe fights aakhir kyu?? I ll tell
u why! BECAUSE of the simple fact that once into a rship ppl make their
partners the axis around which their lives begin revolving.
Tum ho to yahan sab hi
hai..tum nahi to kuch bhi nahi...
Achha?? Saans b mat
lo na uske bina..sath sath hi lia karo. Iss logic se hota ye hai ki when u see
ur bf/gf getting involved in sm work or going for an outing, which does nt
involve u, u start missing them or get frustrated. Kyu? Kyuki aapki khud ki to
koi life hai nahi na!
Naa to u do any work
without ur bf/gf..nor u want them to do anything without u!!! U feel that when
my life revolves only around my partner (which mistakenly u consider APAAR
PYAAR), toh mere bande/bandi ki bhi priority sirf me hi hona chiye hu. If my
partner is having smthng at the same priority level where he/she keeps me..that
means ki he/she luvs me less &hence making me insecure.
To all such ppl...PLZ
DON'T BE CRAZY! Have some mercy upon u & for the poor bf/gf of urs.
Dude...two ppl get committed
when they choose to enjoy their lives TOGETHER.....NOT FOR MAKING IT ONE!
Wo latest song toh
suna hi hoga na, DARD DILON K KUM HO JATE, MAIN AUR TUM AGAR '''hum''' HO
JAATE..
Noticed HUM out
there? Pain reduces when two come together to make it eleven..not one! HUM
hamesha plural hota hai...Its TWO ppl who make HUM.....EK hamesha AKELA HOTA
HAI.
>>>>Fit
this in ur mind<<<<
When u ll get the
above concept only then u ll be able to
appreciate the fact that a person saying YES, agrees for making u a part of
their life...not for giving u the remote control of their life. U can
besomeone's part of life only when u accept the fact that two individuals= two
respective lives jo sabko alag alag jeene ka haqq hai.
A child is the
creation of a mother & a father's togetherness...BUT even that progeny
claims to have a life SEPARATE from his creators to whom he owes his life to.
Remember this
guys...apni life prioritize karna seekho. I agree bura lagg sakta hai when for
completing a game round would mean postponing ur fon call or so...but why dont
u see it as a chance whereby u can lead an individual life too even when u r
somebody's bf or gf! Find ur priorities too..apni hobbies dhoondo...and I bet
that u ll njoy the time even when ur partner isnt there fr u. There r numerous roles which an individual lives & each role can give birth to many equivalent priorities. Seek happiness, not majboori.
In my words...
"Love
shall make u a king..not a slave.
Love gives freedom..chains are in
slavery"
<3 <3 Keep loving...
Dhak dhak dil ki dhadakti daastan ;)
@ Love ka Tadka
Prachi
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