NO AFFAIR YET UNFAIR!

All is fair in luv & war…no doubt luv & war were used together by person who gave this thought to the world coz isn't luv as difficult as war?  Both have dere ups & downs…sometimes one feels he is winning while sometimes other feels the same ;)

Difference lies only in the fact that luv comes in a wrapper of red hearts while war comes wid counter strike sorts of cover :P

Wid that lemme say hii to all my frnzz & jo b bechaare padh rhe hain ise hehehe..don’t worry it will b worth reading..*fingers crossed*

THIS BLOGPOST MIGHT OFFEND SOME OF U WHO CAN RELATE WITH CERTAIN INSTANCES SO MENTIONED…PLZ NEUTRAL HOKE PADNA…COZ U MYT B SOMEONE WHO CAN RELATE & STILL AN EXCEPTION so no offences

Haan to hum kaha the…luv aur war pe…

Last tym I wrote a blog on insecurities ka fear factor…but I think there is something more to it…something which we ll discuss today…SHAQQ!!!! Remember golmal returns? Shaqq…what the ____?

& kareena singing SACH KEHTI HUN JAANU ZARA REHNA SAAWDHAAN..TERA ZARA SA BHI DOLA JO IMAAN..TU SAALA KAAM SE GAYA…:D

What she meant here? Yup….she was referring to AFFAIRS! Kitna down-market sa sound karta hai aaj k tym me ye word…aaj kal to double timing types words use hote hain. Par yaar..matlb to same hi hai na! 

No no no …don’t even think I m gonna serving any lecture over here on affairs, fidelity etc..no way! Wo kisi aur blog me discuss karenge.

Today’s focus is something else! Something very very important! It’s for ppl who need help & a warning to dere partners to save themselves.

U knw what..affair hona itna dangerous nahi hai jitna ye darr mann me bitha lena ki ur partner can cheat on u…iss darr me jeena ki kahi mere sath sath meri bandi ya bande ki setting aur bhi kahin to nahi chal rhi?! Wo bhi tab…jab ur partner is one of those wonderful ppl in this world having whom makes u lucky automatically. Imaan dola bhi nahi aur usse pehle hi kaam se gaya...ittu sa intezaar to kiya hota...ittu sa!!!

I knw someone who was sad when he was single & couldn’t find a girl…who was gloomy when he liked a girl who was already seeing somebody else…who was not happy enuf even when that same girl reciprocated him wid luv…& is depressed today when he is committed!
you ll be surprised to knw ki iss poore sequence me the girl had no fault…its the guy who is utterly pessimist. I m too frustrated to knw what his thought sequences r right now, he is suffering himself & making his partner suffer too. U knw why? SHAQQ!

Listen ppl…shaqq has no cure! In today’s time, I can bet that double dating or triple dating or ‘n’ no. of dating isn't difficult at all!!!! Ek ko wtsap pe patao…doosre ko we chat pe…ek ko fb chat pe… chauthe k saath hike pe…bbm etc etc etc.. and alag alag jaane ki zarurt b nahi hai, do chaar bande/bandiyon k sath to ek sath ek hi messenger pe flirt kia jaa skta hai…
Karna hi kya hai to keep these a secret? CLEAR CONVERSATIONS ka button dabao & whoosh all evidence vanishes!  

Dekho jo hona hai wo to hoke rahega...bin baat pe aapka shaqq apne partner pe karne ka kya matlb? Befaltu me? Basis to lao yaar….fir apna dimag kharab karna. Ek baar bhi lyf me aapka partner aap par bin baat pe doubt kare na…leave him/her at that very moment! Mark my words…otherwise tumhara hell to strt ho gya beta g.

Kuch logon me iss had tak insecurity hoti hai ki wo apni achhi khasi rship khud barbaad kar lete hain just becoz of doubt! And dis insecurity has its roots in ur circumstances, frnz circles, TV shows { ;) }, family and many thngs. Disease hai insecurity.

Few points I wud lyk such insecure ppl who doubt w/o any basis, to jst fit in their minds:-

• If u have dared to luv, dare to trust

• Be careful when its abt u urself, but don’t question the faithfulness of ur partner with no evidence

• Luv per day k hisaab se..kal kisne dekha hai

• If u r committed to somebody who has an ex with whom rship ended on a bad note & its ur first relation, u r daring to spend lyf wid a partner who will be much mature than u…don’t try to dominate her/him, he/she wont take it darling

• Guys who have problem with their gf’s boy_frnz (space wala), don’t even think that ur girl will stop talking to her frnd bcz YOU don’t lyk it {vice versa too}

• If ur partner isn't bearing ur dominance, that doesn’t mean that ur partner is cheating upon u

• If u ll create a scene everytym u r told by ur partner that he/she was having a convo wid a frnd of opposite sex, THEY WON’T STOP TALKING TO THEIR FRND, RATHER THEY’LL STOP TELLING U…fir kya ukhaad loge jab kuch pta hi nahi chalega?

• There is no rule book of luv which says that once u sleep, ur bf/gf shud also sleep or keep his/her cellphone side me SO THAT SICK PARTNERS LIKE YOU CAN SLEEP SOUNDLY WITH NO FEAR OF BNG CHEATED – arre bhaeee…commit hue ho…HAAN bola tha usne tumse commit hone k liye, slave banne k liye NAHI!

• Stop watching emotional atyachaar, jo ek ki chaar batata hai aur khud free ka achaar khata hai….Bindass pe ye hai aashiqui bhi aata hai, itna hi shauk hai to wo dekhlo yaar…

• Don’t go into rship for searching happiness, rather commit for showering luv & for that u need to be first happy wid you urself

• Aesa hai ki cheating karni hogi na tumhare partner ne to wo aese karega ki u won’t even get to knw abt it…u can't ctrl someone dude, but u can ctrl ur own rship atlst till the time there is no basis for doubting ur partner.
  There was this guy who said yaar I knw she luvs me loads & even never reciprocates if anybody flirts with her, BUT fir bhi yaar darr lagta hai ki kahin chhor k chali gyi to? Kisi aur k sath chakkar chal jae uska to?
  I m lyk dude if u r of such a sicko mentality, u urself r giving her a chance to be wooed by someone else! The more u ctrl someone, the more he /she will try to brk thru *_*

• LASTLY….FOR HEAVEN’S SAKE…don’t consider falling in luv to be trendy or mandatory, & commit jst bcz of peer pressure & all…ppl who are full of insecurities, undue possessiveness, doubting nature & are not peace wid themselves, DON’T COMMIT INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP & IF U ARE ALREADY COMMITTED THEN BRK OFF plzzz!
  Wese hi aaj kal itni mushkil se true luv milta hai…mila hai toh cherish it, nahi kar skte toh let someone else b lucky :-|
   

Concluding with it I wud say…AASHIQUI BAAZI HAI TAASH KI, TOOT-TE BANTE VISHWAS KI,If u wont sit , think & change ur mind set even after reading this blogpost, u have no right to roam arnd singing or listening
MILNE HAI MUJHSE AYI, FIR JAANE Q TANHAYI, KIS MOD PE HAI LAYI ASHIQUI!      

KISI KE LIYE RAB KI RAZAA, KISI K LIYE GEHRI SAZAA…DONO CHEHRE ISHQ K JUDAA
rab ki razaa(god consented) ya sazaa (punishment), what fate does ur rship meet with, depends on the choice YOU make!

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Of course ppl, today u cudnt find much of humor in this post, but sometimes in lyf u have to convey few things very srsly…mazaak me kahi baate log bhul jaate hain na ^_^

Luv u guys…wish u a very happy new yr in advance <3 

Keep loving...
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Prachi