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Anyway wo sab chhoro..tell me hws everything? Good? Of course it should be good yaar…bad cheezo pe dhyaan dene k liye, life is very short ;) 

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So far we have dealt with sooo many dimensions to love. But today there is something very imp to be thought about guys. 

It’s about IS PHYSICAL ATTRACTION CONFINED TO IGNITE ATTRACTION FOR LUV OR IS IT NECESSARY FOR LUV TO CONTINUE?

Ab aap soch rhe hoge ki ye kya bol rahi hu main..physical attraction, love, necessity & blah…itna kuch ek hi sentence me? Haha shaant shaant…

Guys everything I m gonna say is something very insightful & thoughtful…dhyan se padhna.. ^_^

Ye to proven fact hai ki aap kisi ki taraf attract sabse pehle uski physical appearance se hi hote ho…right? All those who have different answers as to nahi nahi, intelligence bhi matter karti hai, attitude bhi, etc.. darlings, don’t try to act so smart yaar. It’s very gender neutral that everyone, b it a girl or a guy, tends to look at the opposite sex & get flattered over the looks first! Intelligence, attitude, ego etc do matter, but they come at a later stage.    

Now once u have been flattered & all, moving on from crush to knowing each other to proposals & all that follows…snapping all that lets come to the point when – THE RELATIONSHIP BEGINS!  Voila! Starting from HUM AAPKE HAIN KAUN & reaching to TUM HO MERE HUMRAAZ…its all worth the efforts…agreed! But shuru to ye sab physical attraction se hi hua tha na? Looks achhi lagi, fir baaki baatein bhi achhi lagi toh sone pe suhaga, & nikal padhi train…!

I tell u if ppl change their approach & look at nature first & then the looks, emotional atyachar show bandd ho jaega, aur aadhi se zada population committed hogi & dat too genuine relationships me! Believe me..

Anyway, topic is that what does it take for the relationship to continue? What contribution does good looks have in it?

For me…relationships neither continue on ‘having looks’ & nor does it ends on the factor of ‘lacking looks’!!!! For all those who havnt still understood the understatement, by looks, I mean to say THE DEGREE OF HOTNESS & OOMPH FACTOR THAT UR PARTNER POSSESSES.

Ohhh yeeeaahhs! Dats what I was talking abt all that while…

If u guys think m out of my mind, wait a minute & read till end to knw what I mean. Arre padhlo yaar :D

U knw what happens is ki jab new new relationship me aate hain toh apne partner k alawa koi aur nahi dikhta but gradually what happens ki both banda & bandi start getting comfy with each other & there is no extra preparations w.r.t looking good on date & sab normal ho jaate hain. Jese marzi mil liye, jeans, top, shirt, tshirt, jackets, oversized hoodies etc etc.

Then slowly on outings, bandi starts feeling ki ur banda is checking out some other girls who r like hot stuffs going around & u start getting insecure about ur own looks. Mind you girls, even guys don’t feel good & rather they r more insecure when their bandi finds some other guy REALLLYYY hawwwt & sexy! But as our male dominant society goes on….girls think that they need to luk happening all the time for boys interest to continue in them & boys can get girls, even if they roam around in bermudas (lolzz)

What usually the reaction of such insecure bandis is that they start a wardrobe changing drive & start hunting for such piece of clothings which would make them look sexy & wud make men to turn their heads around ;) As the girls feel that looking bomb is the only way they can retain their guy’s interest in them & can assure that their relationship flourishes. But the answer is….NO…a big NO!

Listen girls…YOU DON’T NEED TO SHED UR CLOTHES TO ASSURE OF BEING LOVED! If wearing short dresses is what is ur usual self & u feel comy, continue to do that…but just becoz ur genre is of jeans & top, JUST DON’T imitate other girls by wearing something in which YOU do not feel comfy enough.

MIND YOU BOYS…if a girl wants, she can look the hottest & can blow u out of ur senses! But does that mean that you will change her? Didn’t u fall in luv with a girl who looked soo pretty in every informal & formal dress?  

AND GIRLS OUT THERE…LISTEN UP! If u cannot luv the way YOU look…u cannot expect ur guy to luv u the way u r. Be confident with what u r. Just becoz u found ur guy cheking out some other girl toh iska matlb ye nahi hai ki he wants even u to imitate that stranger girl & change ur self. He fell in luv wid YOU madam…not ur outfit!! Tumhare bande se zada handsome & smart ladke bhi ghum rhe honge duniya mein…& girls bhi chek out karti hain na ladko ko…TOH? Toh fir bande itna insecure kyu nahi feel karte jitna tum bandiyaan insecure feel karti ho?

Dekho yaar…the person who luvs u…will luv u for what u r …ALWAYS…! One of my guyfriend told me dat he finds his girlfrnd the most beautiful, sexy & the prettiest in KURTIS, & can give tough competition to girls moving around in hot pants :D

Main ye nahi kehti ki itna poorly dress up ho ki bhikhari ko complex ho jaaye…par jese bhi dress up ho, iss tarah ho ki u feel pretty wid urself!! if they dnt luv u for what u r...they dnt deserve u...just LEAVE!

HASEE TO PHASEE dekhi hai? Jinhone bhi dekhi hai…kuch seekha usse? Siddharth Malhotra ISHQ BUALAVA song, uss pagal scientist Parineeti k liye gaata hai.... na ki apni HOTSHOT fiancé k liye. LOVE HAS THE POWER TO CROSS ALL THE BOUNDARIES yaar…physical appearances kya cheez hai :)

@To both the sexes out there…TREAT URSELF WITH TRUE LOVE…baaki sab jhakk maarke peeche aayega ;)

~~~Pyaar kiya nahi jaata …ho jata hai…dil diya nahi jaata…kho jata hai~~~
Aur khoya hua dil to aaj tak kisi ka daddy nahi dhoond paya…physical appearance & outfits mein milne se raha :P

Always remember whenver low..ye duniya..ye duniya peetal di...baby doll tum sone di...ooo baby doll tum ssone di ;)

Keep loving...
Dhak dhak dil ki dhadakti daastan ;)
Will be back soon guys.
@ Love ka Tadka
Prachi